The Gift of Time
Time can feel like a fleeting commodity in the fast-paced rhythm of life, slipping through our fingers before we realize it. Yet, time is one of the most precious gifts we can give—to God, our loved ones, and even ourselves. When we choose to spend it intentionally, we create space for spiritual growth, deeper relationships, and cherished memories that stand the test of time. Here are some thoughtful ways to prioritize quality time for the people and practices that matter most.
Time with God: Nurturing Your Faith
Your relationship with God deserves intentionality and focus. When you carve out time for Him, you align your heart with His and invite His peace into your life.
Start with Scripture: Dedicate a portion of your morning to reading and meditating on God’s Word. Let the Bible be your guide as you begin the day.
Resource: My Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers, a classic devotional to help you start your day with God.
Pray with Purpose: Create a prayer list or journal to guide your conversations with God, lifting both your concerns and praises.
Resource: Fervent by Priscilla Shirer, a practical guide to intentional prayer.
Sabbath Rest: Honor the Biblical rhythm of rest by setting aside one day each week to step back from busyness, reflect on His goodness, and recharge your spirit.
Resource: The Rest of God by Mark Buchanan, an inspiring book on reclaiming Sabbath rest.
Nature Walks: Take a stroll outdoors, marveling at God’s creation. Use the quiet moments to listen to His voice and reflect on His presence.
Time with Family: Building Stronger Bonds
Family is a cornerstone of life, and spending time together strengthens your shared connection. Prioritize activities that foster unity and love.
Shared Meals: Gather around the table for meals, free of distractions. Use this time to pray together, share your day, and enjoy each other’s company.
Resource: The Lifegiving Table by Sally Clarkson, a guide to creating a meaningful family table experience.
Tech-Free Evenings: Designate an evening to unplug from screens and engage in board games, storytelling, or simply sitting together.
Resource: Screen Kids by Gary Chapman and Arlene Pellicane offering advice on reducing screen time for families.
Traditions That Last: Start small traditions, like family devotionals, Sunday walks, or movie nights, that bring joy and consistency to your time together.
Resource: Faithful Families by Traci Smith, a collection of simple faith practices for families.
Serve Together: Volunteer as a family at a local charity or church event. Working side-by-side for a greater purpose builds lasting memories.
Time with Friends: Cultivating Meaningful Relationships
Friendships thrive on shared experiences and deep conversations. Prioritize your friendships by creating intentional opportunities to connect.
Coffee Dates with Purpose: Schedule one-on-one time with a friend to catch up, encourage one another, and pray together.
Resource: Friendship: Cultivating Meaningful Connections by Kelly Needham, a faith-based exploration of God-honoring friendships.
Simple Gatherings: Host casual get-togethers like potlucks or game nights. It doesn’t need to be elaborate—just welcoming.
Resource: The Turquoise Table by Kristin Schell, inspiring ideas for creating community through hospitality.
Walk and Talk: Meet a friend for a walk in the park, combining movement with meaningful conversation.
Celebrate Small Wins: Recognize milestones and accomplishments in your friends’ lives. A handwritten note or small celebration shows your care.
Practical Tips for Intentional Time Management
Set Priorities: Identify what matters most—faith, family, friends—and make them the non-negotiables in your schedule.
Create Margins: Leave room in your calendar for rest and spontaneity, avoiding an overbooked lifestyle.
Say No to Say Yes: Protect your time by gracefully declining commitments that pull you away from what’s truly important.
Reflect Regularly: At the end of each day or week, ask yourself, “Did I spend my time on what matters most?” Adjust as needed.
Further Reading and Resources
Sacred Rhythms: Arranging Our Lives for Spiritual Transformation by Ruth Haley Barton
The Simplest Way to Change the World: Biblical Hospitality as a Way of Life by Dustin Willis and Brandon Clements
Simplify: Ten Practices to Unclutter Your Soul by Bill Hybels
Conclusion
Time is one of God’s greatest gifts to us, but how we use it is our gift in return—to Him and to the people He has placed in our lives. By intentionally spending time with God, family, and friends, we sow seeds of faith, love, and connection that will bear fruit for years to come.
What’s one small step you can take today to spend your time more intentionally?